Move from shame and self-loathing to self-love, emotional freedom, and your highest self.

Virtual therapy available across California.

You deserve love.

You’ve been trying to hold it all together

Either on your own, or with the help of the latest self-help book, podcast, or affirmation you hoped would finally “fix” things.

You’ve kept to yourself, to avoid feeling like a burden.

And your mind is still criticizing you, questioning every choice you’ve made, making you wonder if you’re just too emotional or too much.

Relationships feel like the same demoralizing cycle, leaving you feeling small and second-guessing yourself. Maybe you learned to people-please, hide parts of yourself, or bypass your feelings just to get through.

If you’ve been numbing out, overworking, or trying to push down what you feel, you’re not broken. You’ve been doing your best with what life handed you.

Your nervous system is going to love this.

After taking time to do the deep soul work?

You’re finally feeling safe in your body, working with your emotions instead of fearing them. You’ve freed yourself from the toxic cycles. You’re experiencing healthier, more fulfilling relationships and an expanded sense of worthiness.

Old patterns that used to control your life lose their power, and you feel lighter, freer, and more alive. You set boundaries without guilt and allow yourself to receive the love, support, and joyful experiences you’ve always deserved.

Why working with me is different.

Growing into your highest self requires reaching the depths of your soul and true nature. I guide you to build self-love on a soul-deep level, helping you see your experiences and patterns in an entirely new way.

Together, we untangle the shame and trauma stories that made you feel broken so you can connect with your truest self, maybe for the very first time.

Many people begin to experience something new and powerful on this journey: compassion for themselves, deeper connection with others, and a growing sense of love for life.

This work can also include reconnecting with a deeper sense of spirit, meaning, or fulfillment.

Testimonials

  • I came to Nicole carrying a lot — grief, chronic illness, a new ADHD diagnosis, and years of accumulated shame I hadn't yet named. What I found was a therapist whose somatic and compassion-based approach met me exactly where I was, and helped me do work I didn't know I needed. The shame work we did together genuinely changed my life, and feeling safe with Nicole to go there is a huge reason it was so effective. Her approach makes you feel truly seen and heard, rooted in both compassion and realism, and I grew leaps and bounds in my time with her.

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  • “During a period where I was facing struggles with family and career, which resulted in anxiety and low self-esteem, I found Nicole and am so glad I did. Her approach along with her supportive and patient demeanor helped me take action to change my situation and gain my confidence back. I highly recommend Nicole to anyone who is feeling stuck and looking for a caring therapist.”

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  • “I was facing struggles with family and career, which resulted in anxiety and low self-esteem. Nicole's approach, along with her supportive and patient demeanor, helped me take action to change my situation and gain my confidence back.”

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  • “Within our first few sessions, I discovered things I never pieced together on my own. My experience with Dr. Strauss has been profound in my life.”

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  • “…I never felt judged. Actually, it was just the opposite. I felt like I could tell her whatever was on my mind."

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  • "Working with Nicole was a transformative experience. Her thoughtfulness and compassion helped me get to the root of my challenges.”

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My Specialties

  • mental health therapy space in Los Angeles for trauma and shame healing

    Trauma and Shame Healing For Women

    Release old wounds, step out of shame, and claim your authentic truth.

  • woman in therapy session focusing on emotional regulation and healing

    Self-Worth and Relationship Patterns

    Learn to love yourself deeply, navigate relationships with confidence, and break unhelpful patterns.

  • calming therapy office for trauma counseling and mental health support

    Emotion Regulation and Relationships

    Build emotional resilience, manage intense feelings, and feel steady in your life and relationships.

What healing looks like:

✦ You stop carrying the shame that made you feel like you were “too much,” and start feeling comfortable being your fully authentic self.

Recognizing old relationship patterns sooner and choosing partners and friendships that feel safe, mutual, and supportive.

Steadying yourself when emotions get intense, instead of spiraling, shutting down, or feeling controlled by them.

Trusting your feelings and your instincts, without constantly questioning if your needs are valid.

✦ Feeling more grounded, confident, and connected to yourself, while building a life and relationships that feel nourishing to your soul.

  • I combine soulful, heart-centered talk therapy with evidence-based techniques, blending insight and skill-building to help you embody your most authentic self, from the inside out. 

    This process mail entail trauma processing,should that serve your growth. Sessions are personalized to your needs and pace, always in a safe, supportive space where you can explore feelings, learn tools, and start living with ease, love, and confidence. 

    Therapy isn’t a one-size-fits-all, and I’m here to meet you where you’re at.

Hi! I’m Dr. Nicole Strauss.

I’m here to help you step into your most vibrant, authentic, and radiant self, in a space where you feel seen, safe, and capable of real change

This is a place to cultivate self-love, leave old wounds behind, and learn to step into more freedom and flourishing.

I’ve walked my own path through shame, self-doubt, and learning to truly love myself, so I know how life-changing it can feel when things finally start to shift. That lived experience, combined with my training, shapes the genuineness, expertise, and care I bring to every session.

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Ready for your next chapter?

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